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He is out there and it is only you who is responsible for not meeting him. Let me state that again, it is you who is responsible for not meeting him. How do I know this? First, I am a guy and I have invested a huge amount of time and effort to find my soulmate. Have I found her let's just say I am in the process and I will keep you posted. I also just completed a twenty-six week Integral Relationship Facilitator Training course conducted by author Martin Ucik. His book Sex, Love, Purpose will both challenge and educate you. It helped transform my approach to dating and I can say it is now a lot more fun.
Women I am speaking to you now (Men you will get your turn) and though I am no expert on women I do know what it takes for you, to meet the man of your dreams. It takes a lot of intention to find that special someone. I see a range of women on the dating sites I have been on. Many, not all appear to have little intention for what they are seeking. Let me clarify, that about half the profiles come with no description at all beyond the form you are required to fill out. No wonder you are frustrated as you are not fully engaged in the process of finding your soulmate. Read more:
If you are only relying on your looks alone to attract your soulmate then you are playing into the myth that men only seek beauty. While it is true that some do focus on this, most are seeking real connection, with a real human being. Without declaring your intention or what you are seeking how will he know that you, are his potential soulmate?
Next, I have found many profiles that lead with a disclaimer. Not this, not that, must be this or that. Feels like you are asking for a trial by fire, before we even begin to get to know each other. This is not a grievance proceeding! Not saying that your experiences with men were all great, though there are far better places to sort this out. This will actually attract the manipulators and drive away the good guys and most certainly your soulmate. Please, please, do not use the term hopeless romantic, as that is simply not appealing to your soulmate. Romance, is a beautiful word hopeless, not so much.
Honesty in marketing, state your correct age, even if you feel that you look younger than your age be honest. Next, ten year old pics only lead to disappointment as do headshots that leave us guys guessing. If you are heavier be proud, as there are men who are attracted to every body type. I know this because out in the world, you see all shapes and sizes of couples engaged in all kinds of joyful activities.
Now, we can begin to get to the part that I love. Creating an intention for what you desire in your soulmate. Before we go deeper let me ask do you know the difference between attributes and qualities? If it's purely attributes you seek, than find a site where you swipe left or right and ignore what I am about to share.
Attributes for the man you are seeking - over six foot - taller is better- thick wavy hair -deep set eyes- a strong jaw- muscular- cool profession- financially secure- financially secure- in case you missed the first time- you get my point! Attributes are what we have been trained to focus on because we feel safe when we check the boxes. There is so much more to your soulmate.
Qualities- Are what a person is made of, and when we share what we are made of guess what we attract? You guessed it, our soulmate. State the qualities that are important to you. Examples are, Kindness, strength of character, creativity, patience, wisdom, consciously aware, good conversationalist, active listener, abundant, playful, nurturing, sensual, caring, responsible, physically active, enjoys nature to name a few.
Now know that the second set does not preclude the first just lead with qualities. An intention is really about what you are offering to Life, God, Spirit. Speak about what is important to you and what gives meaning to your life and invite him in. Be honest as hiding doesn't ever get you what you desire. I will be doing a women's only class in soon followed by a men's only. Then, a four week series on finding your Soulmate for both men and women, if enough of you want this. The initial classes will be free trials, so don't miss this chance to set an intention to find the one who is out there waiting to meet you. Please fill out the contact form on this site to secure a spot and stay informed. These groups will be screened and no lurkers will be invited to participate.
About the Author
I, James Barfoot, have mentored with a spiritual teacher over 20 years. Over 30 years of Tai Qi, Qi Gong and Zen training. As a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Master NLP Practitioner with twelve years and thousands of success stories, I have the ability to guide you to the result you desire.
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